ENGAGE WITH CIVILITY
Civility isn’t about agreement—it’s about understanding. In an era of division, City Club is committed to respectful conversations that challenge assumptions and build trust. Our Tools of Civility offer practical ways to navigate tough topics with an open mind. Because a thriving community starts with listening.
Tools of Civility
LISTEN
LISTEN
Focus on others to understand their points of view.
DON'T GOSSIP
DON'T GOSSIP
…and don’t accept when others choose to do so.
SHOW RESPECT
SHOW RESPECT
Honor others and their opinions, especially during disagreement.
BE INCLUSIVE
BE INCLUSIVE
Welcome everyone working for the GREATER GOOD of the community.
PAY ATTENTION
PAY ATTENTION
Be aware and attend to the world and the people.
BE AGREEABLE
BE AGREEABLE
Look for opportunities to AGREE. Don’t contradict just to so.
APOLOGIZE
APOLOGIZE
BE SINCERE and repair damaged relationships.
CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM
CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM
When disagreeing, STICK TO THE ISSUES and don’t make a personal attack.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
Don’t shift responsibility and blame onto others. Share disagreements publicly.
